You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is.
LoveY is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion.
That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are.
Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two."
from the movie Captain Corelli's Mandolin
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