Showing posts with label Mothers Day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mothers Day. Show all posts

Monday, April 12, 2010

Thinking of Mother

Women know the way to rear up children to be just. They know a simple, merry, tender knack of tying sashes, fitting baby-shoes, and stringing pretty words that make no sense. And kissing full sense into empty words.  Elizabeth Barrett Browning
Oh the Victorians, and their impossibly idealistic world. Amazing that they clung to such refinements and dreams in the face of disease and hardships. Rearing up children goes far beyond those frirst enamored months of 'kissing full sense into empty words'. Mothers are commandos. Days on end in the trenches with no sleep and a feverish child, and the rest of the troops to attend to. Mountains of all kinds, laundry, dishes, toys to scale and conquer on a daily basis. Plus tying the merry sash...

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Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body. Elizabeth Stone
Truer words were never spoken. There should be a big and and the rest of the sentence should read, "and the woman herself will forever lose herself. At least I found that to be true, even to this day, I am a magnet. If I have a thought to be isolated or independant I hear that 3 letter word...mom. The force that is stronger than nature, my child saying...mom!

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All that I am or ever hope to be, I owe to my angel Mother. Abraham Lincoln
It's such a testament to the character of a man when he realized the sacrifices and love that a mother can sometime give. I am always amazed when men honor their mothers in any way, it is very rare in 2010. I also believe mothers have changed some since Lincolns day...mothers are the breadwinners now all too often and do not raise their children, they drop them off in child care to be raised. Different world.

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Biology is the least of what makes someone a mother. Oprah Winfrey
I have to say I agree with her, (even if she is one of my least favorite in general). There are lots of people who have a nuturing spirit, and tons of patience and the capacity to love beyond all bounds. And there are biological mothers who just don't give a rip. But it makes us better people when we act on our love, and put our children first even if we lose ourselfs in the process. Lots of us try, daily.

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Friday, May 8, 2009


I find it interesting to know, that the Mother’s day that we now observe by honoring our mother's with flowers, candy, and dinner out was not celebrated as such when it was first conceived in this country. The following is a little information I found on the internet as I was snooping:


It was Julia Ward Howe, writer of the "Battle Hymn of the Republic," who first planted the seed for a day for mothers to come together. It was about 12 years after she wrote that song that she authored the first Mother's Day ttp://www.mothersdaycelebration.com/mothers-day-proclamation.html">Peace Proclamation in 1870.



The peace proclamation was in protest to the devastation that the nation had experienced during the American Civil War. She wanted mothers everywhere to protest the killing of their sons through war and June 2 was designated as the day to celebrate peace and motherhood.



She funded much of the protest gatherings with this intent and in 1873, the day was designated as Mother's Peace Day in 18 north American states.
When Howe stopped funding the celebrated events, most of the peace and motherhood gatherings stopped except in Boston, Mass., where it was continued for some time.



It was Anna Reeves Jarvis of West Virginia who picked up the thought with Mother's Friendship Day so that families and neighbors would reunite after being divided by Union vs. Confederate sides of the war.


Then on May 10, 1908, after much lobbying to the churches, her daughter, Anna M. Jarvis, was successful in having the first Mother's Day event at St. Andrews Methodist Church in Grafton, W. Va., and in a church in Philadelphia, Pa. Jarvis handed out white carnations to all of the mothers in attendance.
http://www.thenews-messenger.com/article/20090508/NEWS01/905080311



History of Mother's Day: Anna Jarvis
Anna Jarvis is recognised as the Founder of Mothers Day in US. Though Anna Jarvis never married and never had kids, she is also known as the Mother of Mothers Day, an apt title for the lady who worked hard to bestow honor on all mothers.



Anna Jarvis got the inspiration of celebrating Mothers Day from her own mother Mrs Anna Marie Reeves Jarvis in her childhood. An activist and social worker, Mrs Jarvis used to express her desire that someday someone must honor all mothers, living and dead, and pay tribute to the contributions made by them.



A loving daughter, Anna never forgot her mothers word and when her mother died in 1905, she resolved to fulfill her mothers desire of having a mothers day. A Growing negligent attitude of adult Americans towards their mothers and a desire to honor her own mother fueled her ambitions.



To begin with Anna, sent Carnations in the church service in Grafton, West Virginia to honor her mother. Carnations were her mothers favorite flower and Anna felt that they symbolised a mothers pure love. Later Anna along with her supporters wrote letters to people in positions of power lobbying for the official declaration of Mothers Day holiday. The hard work paid off. By 1911, Mother's Day was celebrated in almost every state in the Union and on May 8, 1914 President Woodrow Wilson signed a Joint Resolution designating the second Sunday in May as Mother's Day.
http://www.mothersdaycelebration.com/mothers-day-history.html



In 1912, Anna Jarvis trademarked the phrases "second Sunday in May" and "Mother's Day", and created the Mother's Day International Association.
"She was specific about the location of the apostrophe; it was to be a singular possessive, for each family to honour their mother, not a plural possessive commemorating all mothers in the world."



This is also the spelling used by U.S. President Woodrow Wilson in the law making official the holiday in the U.S., by the U.S. Congress on bills, and by other U.S. presidents on their declarations.
Common usage in English language also dictates that the singular possessive "Mother's Day" is the preferred spelling.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mother's_Day

Thursday, May 7, 2009

If only dinner cooked itself,

If Only ----
If only dinner cooked itself,
And groceries grew upon the shelf;
If children did as they were told,
And never had a cough or cold;
And washed their hands, and wiped their boots,
And never tore their Sunday suits,
But always tidied up the floor,
Nor once forgot to shut the door.

If John remembered not to throw
His papers on the ground. And oh!
If he would put his pipes away,
And shake the ashes on the tray
Instead of on the floor close by;
And always spread his towel to dry,
And hung his hat upon the peg,
And never had bones in his leg.


Then, there's another thing. If Jane
Would put the matches back again
Just where she found them, it would be
A save of time to her and me.
And if she never did forget
To put the dustbin out; nor yet
Contrive to gossip with the baker,
Nor need ten thunderbolts to wake her.

Ahem! If wishes all came true,
I don't know what I'd find to do,
Because if no one made a mess
There'd be no need of cleanliness.
And things might work so blissfully,
In time--who knows?--they'd not need me!

And this being so, I fancy whether
I'll go on keeping things together.

http://www.gutenberg.org/files/3477/3477.txt
The Verse-Book Of A Homely Woman, by Elizabeth Rebecca Ward, AKA Fay Inchfawn


Fay Inchfawn wrote gentle, spiritual verse reflecting her own deep feeling on spiritual themes. She also wrote on commonplace everyday themes and on nature but always with a gentleness and sense of fun that endeared her to many readers in a long creative lifetime. She was the authoress of 39 books published between 1920 and 1969.

A post in honor of upcoming Mother's Day.

http://oldpoetry.com/oauthor/show/Fay_Inchfawn

vintage pics: http://www.flickr.com/photos/10549679@N06/

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